For years, I dreamt of having a jewelry collection that truly reflected my style. But where do you even start? I found myself overwhelmed, looking at countless pieces and not knowing what to choose. Over time, through trial and error, I've learned a few things that have helped me build a jewelry collection I absolutely adore and actually wear.
Like many, I started with the basics – a simple chain, a pair of stud earrings. But I quickly fell into the trap of buying what was trendy, not necessarily what I loved. I remember one particularly disastrous shopping spree where I spent a small fortune on a "jewelry wardrobe" based on Pinterest trends. The result? A pile of pretty things I rarely, if ever, wore. It was a costly mistake, and it taught me a valuable lesson: build a collection that reflects you, not the latest trends.
Another challenge I faced was the "collection" mentality. I felt pressured to buy pieces that "went with" other items, even if I didn't truly love them. This led to a drawer full of unworn jewelry that felt more like a burden than a treasure. I realized that buying pieces just to complete a set was a waste of money. Now, I only buy jewelry that I genuinely want to wear, regardless of whether it matches anything else.
I even had a period where I accumulated a large collection of statement pieces, mostly with natural stones. While I loved the look of them in the store, they just didn't fit my everyday style. They ended up sitting in boxes, beautiful but unused. It made me realize the importance of considering my lifestyle and personal style when choosing jewelry.
So, how did I turn things around? I started by thinking about my jewelry collection like I think about my clothing collection. What kind of environments do I wear jewelry in? What styles do I like for each environment? This helped me narrow down my focus and choose pieces that I would actually wear.
One of the first things I did was figure out whether gold or silver looked better on me. I quickly realized that silver complements my skin tone much better than gold. This simple discovery saved me from making many more costly mistakes. Now, I primarily stick to silver and other cool-toned metals.
I also started investing in high-quality, everyday pieces. Instead of buying a dozen cheap necklaces, I focused on finding a few well-made pieces that I could wear daily. I found some beautiful sterling silver earrings that have become my go-to accessory. They're simple, elegant, and go with everything.
Speaking of everyday pieces, I recently discovered BlingCharming Womens Jewelry and have been really impressed with their selection of stylish and affordable options. I was looking for a unique piece to add to my collection, and I found it! I decided to purchase the Forever Lover Friend Letter Open Bangles For Woman Colorful Rhinestone Hollow Bracelet&Bangles Trendy Jewelry Gifts 2022 Colorful Silver.
I love the colorful rhinestones and the unique letter design. It's a fun and trendy piece that adds a pop of color to any outfit. It's also surprisingly comfortable to wear. I've gotten so many compliments on it! It feels well-made and I think it will last a long time. This bangle from BlingCharming has quickly become one of my favorite pieces, and I'm already browsing their website for more treasures!
Here are a few practical tips I've learned along the way: